When Strange Becomes Normal

I’ll be honest here – I haven’t done much reading up on grief.  This is typical for me, choosing to forge ahead into something new blindly, not wanting to be “influenced” by so-called experts who talk about the “right” way or even what is considered “normal”.  Naturally, I’ve heard about the 5 steps of grief, […]

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Journey of a Thousand 22s

If you’ve been following my blog, you may have wondered if I got washed away this past weekend while trying to change out a faucet.  The answer would be no; the kitchen sink got a temporary reprieve from my assault.  A last minute change of plans means I’ll have to tackle that project another time […]

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What a Drip!

There’s another aspect of losing someone beyond the loneliness and pain, and it’s not exclusive to us middows© (or widows of any age, for that matter).  It’s a more pragmatic facet of loss that affects single and divorced women everywhere, as well, and it’s something that will greatly affect my plans for the weekend. My […]

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It’s Tough to Be a Middow©

I thought it was just me, that perhaps I was having a such a hard time dealing with the loss of my husband because I am overly sensitive or incapable of doing this alone or for some other reason of inadequacy.  Turns out it isn’t just me.  It seems that women my age are more […]

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