Remember I Love You

There are many places we didn’t go Many things we didn’t do But that’s not what I’ll focus on When I think of you.   There are roads we’ve never traveled Things we couldn’t buy And yet despite the things we lacked Still that’s not why I’ll cry   Instead I’ll mourn the things we […]

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Déja Vu

The recent time I spent in the hospital brought back a lot of old memories and I couldn’t help thinking about the similarities and differences between my husband’s and my father’s illnesses and passings. Back in late 1996, my father went to the emergency room because he was having difficulty breathing.  I won’t dredge up […]

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The First Lady

Today was the first of “the firsts”. You know how after someone passes you suddenly have to celebrate each special occasion without him? Or you go to that favorite restaurant without her? Today, we celebrated our daughter’s 23rd birthday, and she has the dubious distinction of being the “first of ‘the firsts’”. Obviously more firsts […]

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Hobo No More

I put on make-up today for the first time in several weeks.  Well… maybe the term “make-up” is a bit of a stretch.  Mascara.  I put on mascara.  But it’s a start.  And earrings, too.  And a skirt instead of yoga pants, which have been my go-to fashion of late.  I’ve cared too little about […]

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