Through the Eyes of Love

A very interesting, very emotional thing happened today.  I’ve spoken several times before about my husband sending messages and letting me know he’s still with me (like here, here, and here).  Today’s occurrence was a bit more direct and immediate, though.  So much so, that it instantly brought me to tears and it took me […]

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When Strange Becomes Normal

I’ll be honest here – I haven’t done much reading up on grief.  This is typical for me, choosing to forge ahead into something new blindly, not wanting to be “influenced” by so-called experts who talk about the “right” way or even what is considered “normal”.  Naturally, I’ve heard about the 5 steps of grief, […]

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Journey of a Thousand 22s

If you’ve been following my blog, you may have wondered if I got washed away this past weekend while trying to change out a faucet.  The answer would be no; the kitchen sink got a temporary reprieve from my assault.  A last minute change of plans means I’ll have to tackle that project another time […]

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What a Drip!

There’s another aspect of losing someone beyond the loneliness and pain, and it’s not exclusive to us middows© (or widows of any age, for that matter).  It’s a more pragmatic facet of loss that affects single and divorced women everywhere, as well, and it’s something that will greatly affect my plans for the weekend. My […]

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